anniversary

[him] honey, the 20th is almost around the corner, u know..
[me]mmh.. whats on 20th?
[him] may 20th..!
[me] omg!our anniversary!! may 20th! i almost forgot!we should celebrate it dear..!
[him]we don't need any celebration.. or whatsover.. it's useless u know..
[me]i know that, but i think we should.. coz in my opinion, unlike birthdays , anniversary should be embraced and its the time of being grateful for His blessing..for me its an achievement-it needs large amount of effort to stay in a marriage, u know...
[him] achievement? if u put it that way.. i think u're a pessimistic..
coz, in my perspective, marriage is forever.. and ur perspective is not..
[me]....

*my heart melts a little when he said that.. but it also keeps me wondering.. am i a pessimistic..???